Tuesday, August 14, 2007

these five are for me

Here's a story that will really put my parenting abilities into question. Yesterday at the grocery store I wanted to bribe the kids to be good without spending a lot of money, so I told them that if they were good I would buy marshmallows (97 cents). I let them chose if they wanted little or big ones. They all got one marshmallow when we got home for good behavior. I thought, "Great this bag of marshmallows is going to last forever." Then today I really got into Eclipse and it was almost dinnertime. I hadn't yet even thought about what we were going to have for dinner, but wanted to read just a little bit more before Nikolay came home. So, when Ariel asked me if she could have a marshmallow, I said, "Sure if you will bring me one too and let me keep reading until Papa gets home." So of course Adriana and Annika needed one too. In a few minutes Adriana asked if she could have two marshmallows and I was like way into the book, like Edward and Jacob were going to fight, so I said, "Sure but ask Ariel to get them for you," so everyone including myself got two more marshmallows. Before you know it, Adriana is standing next to me with a handful for marshmallows and I reach my hand out for another one, and she states with a mouth full of marshmallows, "These five are for me." So, instead of trying to teach her anything (just imagine all the lessons that needed to be learned: nutrition, sharing etc...) I reward her by laughing hysterically, and having Ariel get her some more so that I can take her picture. How's that for parenting skills!


These are photos of our second trip to Silver Lake. It is my goal to get a good picture of all six of us together. I hope Emily will help me out with this one.

3 comments:

Anonymous said...

Oh my gosh Heather! That was so funny I was laughing outloud!! Jacob was studying so he told me to be quiet! :) I love it. Your girls crack me up!

And I'd be happy to take a picture of you all next time we come over!

When does Ariel start school? My first contract day is tomorrow and the kids come Tuesday. Groan.

Heather said...

I'm glad you liked it. I can't beleive that school is starting so soon. Ours starts the next week after that. (I think)

Erin said...

I think you have great parenting skills. You are teaching your children laughter! And you didn't turn into 'mean mom'. That is great!